My ears thumped by the silence on the other end of Laura’s phone. I jumped in my car to drive to her house. Husband stayed home. I knocked on Laura’s door – no answer. I telephoned – voicemail. I knocked again, hard enough to hurt. She opened the door, bleary-eyed, and defiant.

I followed her up the stairs. She did not stop at the first landing. She staggered up to the next flight to her bedroom. I carried on right behind her. She could not stand still. She swayed. ‘Are you all right?’ I asked.

She did not answer. I walked around her bedroom. I saw a half-empty bottle of wine. ‘This is what’s wrong with you. This!’ I screamed, holding up the half-drunk wine. I pounded to the bathroom, and tipped the wine down the sink. ‘You’ve been doing so well.’ I began to lecture. She flopped on the bed. I left her there. I left her house. I took her mobile phone to search for traces of Mr Big I Am.

Back home in the kitchen, my rage turned to fear. I did not have the stomach for searching her life on-line. I worried she may need the phone to get help. I jumped in my car again and posted the phone through her letterbox.

My anxiety grew, a living thing, it crept into my belly and made a home there. As dusk descended, I nipped out to drive past Laura’s house, all windows were lighted against the night. The light house was a sign: Laura was up, and out of bed.

I did not know back then that cocaine sobered a drunk. She went out that night to party some more.

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I am the mother of two adult daughters, both much loved and cared for. The eldest thought she could handle social drinking and party drugs, she could not. There is a journey addicts relate to - their journey. As a mother I have healed through the written word. This is my journey.

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